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comdoc | On a lark, I made a synastry overlay with my mom. Shocked to see similarities with a fave prospective mate: both Kites! Any insights? Mom: blue inside. Prospective mate born 8/17/87: blue inside. |
SecretGeek | Can you do a synastry chart with just the ladies and post it please? |
comdoc | Here's their synastry overlay; Mate blue inside + Mom red outside. quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: Can you do a synastry chart with just the ladies and post it please?
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SecretGeek | TY. What do you know about your mate's black moon lilith in the 12th on the cusp? |
comdoc | WC. Note that her BML makes no major aspect to my natal placements. I feel that her true emotions run very deep and that she values privacy. She powerfully presents only that which she wants others to see (Leo stellium in 1H)--putting on a good show, using her 10H Gemini Moon. quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: TY.What do you know about your mate's black moon lilith in the 12th on the cusp?
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comdoc | Here's a synastry overlay for another prospective mate (born 8/3/92) blue planets inside and my Mom (red planets outside). What does the super strong aspect mandala mean? |
SecretGeek | quote: Originally posted by comdoc: WC. Note that her BML makes no major aspect to my natal placements. I feel that her true emotions run very deep and that she values privacy. She powerfully presents only that which she wants others to see (Leo stellium in 1H)--putting on a good show, using her 10H Gemini Moon.
That might be stronger if not in aspect. Relative to your mother, that is what stands out to me the most. The initial aspect patterns are uncanny. It is possible your mate is suppressing whatever BML represents and I would be aware of it. |
SecretGeek | With the next one, Pluto in the 8th stands out on your mother's south node. Looks like less risk. |
comdoc | Mate's BML is in the 30th degree of Cancer(Sign of the Mother) in 12H. Her BML makes no major aspects to Mom's placements. I found a wonderful BML in Houses site, from author Xaos: https://theastrocodex.com/lilith-in-the-12th-house/ He says she despises being alone, and will be very popular and outgoing. That is congruent with her Leo stellium in 1H. I have the sense that she enjoys living in an urban environment, and would not be happy in an isolated rural domicile(like where I presently reside). Paradoxically this is counter to her 12th House Cancer, with the need for peace and quiet. I would need to relocate to a life positive environment--which I'm willing to do for the right life partner.He says she despises being alone, and will be very popular and outgoing. That is congruent with her Leo stellium in 1H. I have the sense that she enjoys living in an urban environment, and would not be happy in an isolated rural domicile(like where I presently reside). Paradoxically this is counter to her 12th House Cancer, with the need for peace and quiet. I would need to relocate to a life positive environment--which I'm willing to do for the right life partner. quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: That might be stronger if not in aspect. Relative to your mother, that is what stands out to me the most. The initial aspect patterns are uncanny. It is possible your mate is suppressing whatever BML represents and I would be aware of it.
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comdoc | Less risk sounds good. Her Water Monkey birth year goes great with my Earth Rat. Note her 8H Pluto is trine my Mom's Pluto in mate's 4H, and square Mom's Leo Mars in mate's 5H. Home, Family, Children matters? quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: With the next one, Pluto in the 8th stands out on your mother's south node. Looks like less risk.
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comdoc | Update: I realized that 8/3/92 also has 3 Earth placements: Virgo Jupiter, Capricorn Uranus and Neptune. This matches intuitive guidance that my optimum mate should have 3 or more planets in Earth signs. quote: Originally posted by comdoc: Less risk sounds good. Her Water Monkey birth year goes great with my Earth Rat.Note her 8H Pluto is trine my Mom's Pluto in mate's 4H, and square Mom's Leo Mars in mate's 5H. Home, Family, Children matters?
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Randall | Bump! |
comdoc | Thanks for the heads up. Since posting these two Leo charts, a few other possibilities also meshed well with my mom's chart--one Libra 9/27/88 with Leo rising conjunct my Mars, and a younger Leo(not as resonant for me). But my heart goes back to these two LEO girls. quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: That might be stronger if not in aspect. Relative to your mother, that is what stands out to me the most. The initial aspect patterns are uncanny. It is possible your mate is suppressing whatever BML represents and I would be aware of it.
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SecretGeek | TY. I lived in a rural area before (several hundred acre ranch). I met a girl from the big city. I brought her into a rural area for 10 years. She missed being away from her kids, not so much the big city. |
comdoc | How did you meet? Did her ASC change much to the new location? Did she get along well with your mother? quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: TY. I lived in a rural area before (several hundred acre ranch). I met a girl from the big city. I brought her into a rural area for 10 years. She missed being away from her kids, not so much the big city.
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SecretGeek | I met her online before the internet had graphics. I flew up there to meet. I haven't checked if her ASC would change. Mother fine, not so much my father. But later she attended to my father on his deathbed. |
comdoc | Back to the subject of this thread. Part of my mother lives on genetically and energetically in me. Whatever that is seems to be represented in our synastry overlay (and midpoint composite?). My observation was that strong marriage candidates (we share powerful synastry and composite) also have powerful synastry (and composite?) with my mother. Genes from my mother's egg make up half of my own morphogenetic field--and presumably half of my overall energy characteristics (my "inner female"). That's a huge part of what resonates in me with potential female mates. Similarly for a female and her father. Any females want to share your own astrology experiences with their father and mate similarities? |
comdoc | Bump! Similarly for a female and her father. Any females want to share your own astrology experiences with their father and mate similarities? |
SecretGeek | Good idea. I am thinking. |
Orange | I read somewhere that girls marry a man whose Moon is the same as girl father's Moon or Sun. it's true in my case, I almost jumped when I checked it and saw they have the same Moons. as about a man marrying a girl like their mothers, I just realized that my luv's mother has Sun in Gemini and Moon in Virgo, while I am a Virgo Sun with Moon in Gemini. She has a Cancer Venus conjuncting his North Node, I have a Libra Venus squaring his Nodes. Interesting material! |
Randall | Very interesting. |
comdoc | These genetic astrological and relocation correspondences are fascinating to me. I checked some prospective mates's synastry with my father's placements; most of them don't compare to their synastry with my mom. His August 21 Leo Sun is exactly conjunct soulmate prospect's August 21 solar eclipse! Her Sun and Moon are conjunct my relocation ASC at my current residence. His best synastry is with 9/30/88 Aqua12ASC prospective mate. |
Randall | Bump! |
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Randall | Bump! |